Hello! I have been living in Seattle for about a year now, and really would like to find some new friends interested in the BDSM world, and speciffacly a Domme to show me the ropes! Please check out my profile and if I seem like your type, drop me a line! I would like to go to the wetspot, but my work schedule means I miss out on the Thursday and Friday oriantations since I don't get done till 11pm. Maybe we can chat here and someone will let me tag along as a guest?
Some basics about me:
Into Bondage, ropes, blindfolds, gags, and all kinds of play. Have experience in both Dom and Sub roles, but prefer to be a sub.
Looking for those who share this lifestyle. I want to expand my horizions and share experiences with others into BDSM, Dom/Slave and all kinds of kink.
Some basics about me:
Into Bondage, ropes, blindfolds, gags, and all kinds of play. Have experience in both Dom and Sub roles, but prefer to be a sub.
Looking for those who share this lifestyle. I want to expand my horizions and share experiences with others into BDSM, Dom/Slave and all kinds of kink.
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HI Matthew! The Center also has introductions prior to every Saturday Pan party, and we're looking into other times as well. You're also welcome to come on over to the drop-in nights on Tuesdays and talk to people.
To be very honest, female dommes are in high demand, so the best way to get the attention of one is to show up! Hope to see you at the Center soon!
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If you really want to make the most of an online presence, you might want to present more information in your online profile.
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Consider online resources such as alt.com and collarme.com and bondage.com and others to meet playmates. I have found that far more productive personally. The Wet Spot is a great place to go and play on safe and neutral territory after a connection has been established.
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1) yes, put info in your profile
2) use a picture with your shirt on! We don't need to see that.
3) go to the Spot and start making *friends*. Networking is a wonderful way to meet playmates, and it will reduce the frustration factor for you immensely. There are a lot of single men looking for us domly females, and we're quite often more receptive if a) you're hanging out with our friends and b) you're acting like you're interested in having a normal conversation about more than just kink - as in, if play isn't going to happen with us, you're not going to keep trolling around the room asking asking asking asking looking looking looking looking going-home-mad-when-no-one-plays-with-you. :) Don't be that sad/creepy guy staring at all the fun. Talk to people and make friends without putting the focus on immediate play - it can only make you more attractive when dommes see you have the social skills required to make friends. And the patience to stand a little delayed gratification. We really like that. *wink*
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Thanks for the tips, and unfortunately it's the only pic I have scanned into my computer at the moment....
The hardest part for me is job/time contsraints, as I don't have much time when the open guest nights are on at the Spot. Which is why I tried here first, but I'll see what I can do to improve this in the future....
Oh, and I can smile and laugh with the best of them, I'd better get a big smile in my picture, eh ;) -
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BDSM and the Kink world in general requires a time committement. As a newbie I suggest you be ready to be trained and make the time for "practice." Look at it like any other physically demanding recreation that you have decided to learn. You would need to spend time "practicing" making the shot, jumping the bar or whatever right? BDSM requires the same kind of dedication, if you want to be safe. Take it seriously and make the time. If you fall in love with BDSM/Kink the way I have, you will find that your priorities will naturally shift. As with anything a human finds that gives them pleasure and an opportunity for personal growth.
Also, I can not express enough how deeply I agree with what Nancy said. Go to TWS with the intention of meeting people and making friends. Your absolute best bet is to meet people, be honest about your experience level and let people see you learning. BDSM requires an intense level of trust. Trust is earned. And your smile will carry you a long ways around here.....
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